One of the most terrifying things for a man is to take to himself a daughter of God, because God loves His daughter. Let me just say something that is very, very important. It may sound kind of, just too simple, but you need to hear it, and it’s this: You do not treat a girl like you do one of your friends who’s male. I don’t care if you think she’s your best friend in the world, you do not treat her like you would a boy, like you would a man. And another thing, guys, what are you doing? I know a lot of guys that say, ‘Well, my best friend is this girl.’ What on earth are you doing? That’s wrong. It’s just flat out wrong.
You say, ‘Why is it wrong?’ Here’s something you need to understand. A girl does not listen to what you say. She looks at what you do. You can tell her all day long you are just friends, she is not going to believe you if you keep coming around. And even though you, probably, cannot see it, if she’s still around you and hanging around you as a friend, it’s
because that’s the best that she can do right now and she’s hoping your sentiments toward her will change.
Paul Washer
(via thesweetermelody)
