Instead of being offended or angry, that instead should give us a heart of love and grieving. They will notice that. They will see your patience. Your response will be a walking testimony of who Jesus is.
If you respond with anger, there is a ZERO percent chance they will ever hear about Jesus from you. But patience, love, respect, reasonable calmness: there is a slight chance you might be able to pierce that ice-cold shield. I’m not saying we should talk about Jesus only when we’re comfortable, but we must earn the right to be heard.